cutting costs

I hope I'm not beating a dead horse here, harping on the money topic. But in every single wedding decision I make, cost is the first consideration. I thought I'd mention things we've nixed in an effort to save.


1. Favors

This was an easy one. I'm not sure why brides think guests are interested in taking home a piece of junk with someone else's name and wedding date engraved on it. Edible favors are a different story. If I could afford to give personalized jars of homemade jam... I probably still wouldn't do it, but it's a neat favor idea nonetheless! In conclusion, we're not giving out favors.

2. Boutonnieres

It turns out, guys don't really enjoy having a rose pinned next to their face. It's annoying and ends up getting smushed halfway through the day. Michael is in charge of finding pocket squares for his groomsmen. That way, we still get the little bit of color without the irritation.

3. "Toss" bouquet

We're not doing a bouquet toss. I've never enjoyed them at weddings -- they're kinda awkward. Same goes for the garter toss. Plus, I can't really picture any of my friends risking their limbs for a fistful of flowers.

4. Groom's cake

My fiance doesn't like cake. We'd planned to do groom's pies, but last week we hit on something cheaper, and easier. It's still a dessert, but I'm keeping it a secret for now.

5. Pro hair and makeup

My cousin, quite handily, finished cosmetology school this year, so she'll be doing my hair. I'll do my own makeup and nails.

6. Ceremony musicians

I come from a very musical family. So does Michael. But, honestly, I can't remember whether a wedding I attended five years ago had live musicians or recorded music. To me, this detail is just not that important.

7. Floral centerpieces

As much as I love ogling the gorgeous, lush floral centerpieces over at Martha Stewart's wedding website, there is just no way. I've already posted on my coffee filter roses, but there will be other components to our centerpieces as well.

8. DJ

With the rise of the iPod reception, we didn't think twice about cutting out the DJ. I feel confident in our collective ability to pick out awesome dance music and sort the playlist into an order that flows well. Plus, my grandpa has all the needed sound equipment, so no rental fees there!